We hear these sorts of first date ideas all the time from friends and family members – the usual “keep it short, sweet”. But what does that really mean? To some, it may seem to offer very little challenge or complexity. To others, it means having someone to show off to, showing off your talents, skills and qualities, and being judged against a standard. Or it means becoming shy and/or self-conscious about your looks. There is plenty of room for creativity in First Date Ideas. To explore the idea further, let’s look at some of the more interesting elements that come to mind. These first date ideas are more than…